When a Sibling is Ill

Growing up with a sibling who is seriously ill can be incredibly challenging. When I was 12 and my sister was 14, she was diagnosed with cancer. This experience deeply impacted me, shaping who I am today and fueling my passion for helping kids and teens who are facing similar situations. I understand the unique struggles that come with having a sick sibling—the fear, the worry, the sense of isolation, and the guilt that can often arise.

Children and teens with sick siblings often feel overwhelmed by emotions they may not fully understand. They might experience guilt for being healthy, fear of what the future holds, or even resentment for the attention their sibling receives. These feelings can be confusing and difficult to express, especially when they feel the need to be “strong” for their family. As someone who has been through this, I know the importance of having a safe space to talk about these emotions without judgment.

In therapy, I help kids and teens navigate these complex feelings, offering them the support and understanding they need. I create a space where they can explore their emotions, express their fears, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Understanding what they’re feeling and why is the first step toward healing. Through conversation and creative outlets like art therapy, we explore their emotions in a way that feels comfortable for them. Art therapy, in particular, allows children and teens to express themselves when words may not be enough, providing a powerful way to process their experiences.

Every child is different, and so are their coping mechanisms. Whether it’s through mindfulness techniques, journaling, or art, we’ll find strategies that work best for your child to manage their stress and anxiety. Building resilience is crucial for children and teens dealing with a sibling’s illness. We focus on empowering them to face challenges head-on and find strength within themselves, even in difficult times. I also work with them to improve communication, helping them find ways to express their needs and concerns to their family members. Effective communication can ease tension and help them feel more connected and supported within their family dynamic.

This isn’t just my job—it’s my passion. Having been in their shoes, I’m deeply committed to helping your child navigate the challenges of having a sick sibling. I want to provide them with the tools they need to feel understood, supported, and resilient. If you’re looking for someone who truly understands what your child is going through, I’m here to help. Let’s work together to ensure that your child feels seen, heard, and supported during this challenging time.